I don't really feel the need wave my "Gold Star" status around like some medal. I don't really think it's important or defining. But it becomes important when people start characterizing it as a myth. That is, when lots of people saying because they have never personally met a lesbian that has never slept with a man, they must not exist. (Though I think some these women have only met 4 lesbians.)
So, I'm just here to say that I exist. Thank you.
And there's more!
I'm monogamous and I've never cheated. I'm over 30 and came out when I was 17. My sexuality has never been fluid.
It gets weirder.
I've been with my girlfriend for 13 years and she is the only person I have ever had sex with.
Yes, I had other opportunities. However I picked....wait for it...abstinence. Like on purpose. For reals.
